Gratuitous TMI whiny post
Posted on April 27th, 2011
Something at one of the nearby restaurants is wafting up through our windows, and it smells heavenly. It’s after 6, and while I would normally feel guilty that I haven’t cooked dinner (or put much thought into it), I’ve been battling a migraine and its attendant queasiness. Liking the smell of food is actually a step up from an hour ago.
M is finally on his way home, and will pick up takeout (hooray), so you needn’t worry on behalf of P. You wouldn’t need to worry in any event, because she determined – when I was in the worst of my headache – that she wanted to get watermelon. Never mind that she was sick, barking cough and all. She got herself together enough to allow herself – and the shark – to be pushed in the stroller (that she is too large for) to the grocery store. I bought a watermelon, tomatoes, butter, and Pepsi Max (the necessities of life), hung the bags off the handles of the stroller, and pushed them all home again.
There was watermelon consumption and there was National Geographic Blu-Ray movie watching.
This is the sort of day that leaves me feeling like a failure, because I only did a little writing. Because even after being home with P a year, I feel like there must be some product to show at the end of the day. Yes, there was a lot of domestic stuff (dishes-dusting-vacuum-clean shower stall-grocery store-trash-recycling). I know, I’m sick. The child is sick. The migraine intervened.
I still feel like I should accomplish something – well, if not quite tangible, then something I can point to and say, “I did this.”
I hate that I feel that way. I hate that I didn’t do “enough,” whatever enough is. I hate that I get migraines that derail entire days. I hate hormones. I hate that I can’t remember the really cool thing P did today that I wanted to blog about.
Bah. Hopefully tomorrow will be a much more enjoyable day.

I do the same thing. My migraines really color the whole day, even if I catch them in the early stage. Imitrex leaves me feeling slightly out of body and that leads to a whole day seemingly wasted because I couldn’t accomplish what *I* wanted to accomplish, even if the house is in order and the kids are happy. Sorry you are in the same boat.
Oh, exactly! I take Frova (another triptan) and even though it prevents the awful pain, I’m loopy, can’t spell, confuse homonyms – it’s awful. It’s like I take a 40 IQ point hit. Fortunately, I can’t remember it very well, either.
I tried imitrex and hated it. I’m now on Inderal and I love it. I take it daily to prevent migraines. For pain when I get one (and if I catch it soon enough, it will stop it and make it go away) Esgic. I know, two meds, but the inderal is $4 a month and the Esgic (at least with my insurance) is $10 and I get 60 and they last a while. Just a thought.
And you are a fantastic mom and you work very hard. You did more than most would with a migraine. Tomorrow will be another fun adventure. Rest tonight!
You had a migraine, and yet you still went to the store and bought watermelon. That is an accomplishment.
I so empathize. These painful illnesses suck and make you feel like such a failure. Been there. Never thrilled when others join in.
I get tremendous migraines, too, I can sympathize
I remember being home with her, having to work, but just laying sprawled on the couch with ice on my head saying “Mama has an owie, mama has an owie” over and over, hoping she’d leave me alone.
How are you feeling today? If I was there and you were feeling okay I would want to meet you at the food carts. I saw a picture in the May Cooking Light of the food carts there. I love street food. Oh, and also, thank you so very much for the question about my mom. I will post about it, but I have adored thinking about it. thank you thank you thank you.
A wise woman once told me – some days, cell division is the best you can do. I think sick child + migraine = a cell division day.
Cell division. Yes. This is what I am capable of right now. I like that descriptor!