Solidarity forever, but with whom?
The Attorney At Large
Posted on September 5th, 2011
Labor Day.
Once, M and I organized a union. I was twenty-one.
Once, M’s grandfather worked in the mines for a dollar a day for Peabody Coal, until he and others organized a union; then they made a dollar an hour. His mother was born in that town from that song. Once, before she died, she took M up the road to try to find where the town had been.
The day after Pea was born, when M held her for the first time in the NICU, he whispered to her the story about his grandfather and the coal company and the union, and he told her how she’d make the world a better place, too.
And yet, what kind of world will she work in?
When I read the news, when I realize how broken the system is, when I see how corrupt it all is, I just…I don’t know. How do you fix it? How do you not throw up your hands and say, I’m moving to Canada? New Zealand? France? Germany? I try to think that in the 1840s, things looked pretty damn bleak for working people (men), too, but that was back when we actually made products here. But now, what do we produce, except ideas for products that get built somewhere else? How long will it be before the ideas happen overseas, too, and we are all superfluous?
As much as I fantasize about living in a place with mandatory vacation time, this is our country; this is where we stand or fall. The way I see it, our only option is to make it a better place, because we don’t quit. We make things better. Somehow.
Labor Day. A long weekend, sunny and lovely, full of friends and laughter. We’ll enjoy the day off, too, because how often do we get a break? I hope everyone is enjoying the long weekend. I hope everyone has jobs to go to on Tuesday.
And damn, I really hope someone has some ideas.
I don’t. I worry every day about this.
I know. It is overwhelming, terrifying. Where to start?
No, I have no ideas either, but it kills me. (My grandfather was killed in a coal mining accident in 1937. He’d just been promoted and on the first day of his new position, they blew the whistle to warn everyone that they were going to blow a mine. He ducked down a tunnel to wait it out and it was the wrong tunnel.)
Oh, gosh, that is so heartbreaking. Whenever there is a mine collapse, M’s mother would freeze and wait; M is very much the same way. I think it’s in the blood.
“…what kind of world will she work in?
…when I realize how broken the system is, when I see how corrupt it all is, I just…I don’t know. ”
I could have written these words…so I try and not to think about the future that far ahead. I want my kids to be self-aware and self-confident. Self-aware and self-confident people are usually the happy, interested, interesting and caring ones, who equally are not lapdogs either and who can make the most of every situation life throws at them.
I usually can’t think of the big picture — it’s too scary. The bleakness reminds me of how it felt growing up in the 80s. Focusing on the kids is the best any of us can do — and work toward electing better officials. To say I’m disappointed right now doesn’t begin to cover it.
I had a similar–though more selfish and localized panic–about this earlier in the afternoon. What we are doing, and how bad our collective stewardship has been lately. How it’s going to get worse for kids with asthma because we’ve decided that some unscientific drivel about regulations killing jobs has even the President panicked. :$
EXACTLY. I am positively livid about backing off on air quality regs. Does the government not realize we have to breathe this stuff?!
[edit] …because some unscientific drivel about regulations killing jobs has even the President panicked. :$
Am I terrible in that I’d rather just quit the country? Tedd and I have talked in hypothetical terms about packing up and moving to Berlin – I’d need a lot more remote freelance work, but if that happened, many of Tedd’s workplace’s partner companies are in that city. And I have family there – we’d even have a place to stay until we got settled. It’s very, very tempting.
It’s funny, how in Europe, where I live, most people want to emigrate to the US or Canada.
Oh. And another thing that kept echoing–that you and M organized a union
!
I never expected to see the American middle class vanish this way in my lifetime. The perviously working class are the new poor; the previously poor absolutely destitute. As an immigrant, who moved here, I cannot put into words how sad it makes me to see the American Dream fade.
Thank you! I am pretty damn proud of myself, too.