Blood, (boob) sweat, and (allergy) tears
Posted on May 14th, 2012
Lest anyone fear, I survived mother’s day. And had a good time of it, too, on a picnic with friends. And then my friend RGP made me cry. In a good way.
Now? It’s hot. Pea’s word of the day is “sweltering.” She is “sweltering in her clothes.” Her hair, she says, is sweating and it’s getting into her blood and making her hot. (I’ll keep the secret of boob sweat from her for a few more years.)
Gman? Still sick. We took him to the doctor today and yes, it’s been professionally confirmed that he is sick. He’s on sulfa and steroid nose spray, and oh, lots of sleeping.
I have been transcribing Dearest Maude letters like crazy (they’re currently scheduled out through the end of May, but there are so very many more!)
I received a packet of info in the mail today for the project, including an interview with a great-great aunt, details about my great-great grandfather’s farming operation and how he put one over on the railroad, and the way my great-grandmother was raised. Talk about free-range parenting! It was, quite literally, free range parenting. It’s one thing to know the names and dates, but to read something written (spoken) by family long-dead is so different and amazing. I also learned the melodeon owned by my great-great-great grandmother is in a museum about 6 hours’ drive away.
(I went on a kick a few years back where I bought up books written by ancestors and collaterals. One of them is a HILARIOUS history of Oregon. I have got to tweet that material someday.)
Going through my personal archive of material has triggered a massive allergy attack, so I’m crying as I’m writing this, even after putting drops in my eyes.
And…I’m reading up on grant writing, something that until this past week I knew nothing about. I now know next to nothing about it, but it’s progress. I’ll take it.

Have you mentioned the Dearest Maude project before? That is awesome.
Glad you salvaged your Mother’s Day. A picnic with friends and kids sounds perfect.
I have, somewhat obliquely (and links will probably be edited later on for privacy reasons). It is so much fun and I’ve been meaning to do *something* with all the material for years. It’s so nice to finally have figured out what that means!
Grant writing! Are you thinking of getting into the game? I’ve done a few – a very small few – but I have a 100% success rate so far. They were easy ones, though, so I’m not very cocky about it.
Also, thanks for the book recommendation – I’ll def. download.
Only for selfish reasons (the Dearest Maude project — looking for grants to cover research/travel/archive/writing time for the book I want to turn it into) although I’ll admit, it’s not a bad skill set to have!
And you’re welcome on the book. It is really quite interesting — I had my mother and sister (obviously this was a long time ago) equally riveted by it. It’s that good.
Sorry, AAL, but I couldn’t help but laugh at your being allergic to our family heirlooms. Back in the day, I had to defend a doctor who was sued for malpractice by a prison inmate child molester, and I would get these giant dusty handwritten motions that made no sense and made me sneeze. I was convinced that I was going to die of prison germs and used up all of the hand soap in the ladies’ every time I got one of those things, but in retrospect it was probably just a psychosomatic response to the fear.
Good times! Don’t miss it!
*your family heirlooms. No confirmed common ancestors yet (that project is on hold for now).
Ha! Just you wait. We’ll be cousins, I know it.
That reminds me! I would get the serious uggies every time I had to be in the room with a certain child molester (Murderers? Give me murderers. I am fine with them!) and I could not wash my hands enough afterward!